On parenting

Younger children

"There are only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children. One of these is roots, the other, wings."

                       Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


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Older children

When our younger children become our older children, parenting gets a brand new wardrobe.  I used to think my girls were changing quickly but I look back and realize I was changing even more.


My middle girl, Jo, started drawing when she was a toddler. Today, she has her own business as an independent graphic artist and designer.  Sometimes I forget she is an entrepreneur and not just my kid.  I've had to figure out (and make many mistakes) that what I consider to be a simple request (I am your mom, after all) can be a frustration for her.  My best shot is to view our occasionally strained interactions from my other role as daughter to my own mom.  This puts the brakes on boundary-shifting.


I told her I would link her professional sites to mine since I believe in partnerships with older children.  Below are some of her creations. With 30 years in between us we have a ways to go before seeing eye to eye on everything, but her work is good and I wanted you to see it!  Frankly, there's too much of it to put on my fridge. Enjoy, and thanks for checking out her offerings!


www.jobayne.com

www.inkonymous.com

Co-parenting

A unique task in its own category.  More to follow.